The evolution of sexual relations in couples and even in groups has allowed the incorporation of new games or actions that complement sexual activity . The use of objects, clothing or acts to get rid of the daily routine, has fueled the sexual act between couples.
One of these unusual acts is called the golden shower , which seems to cause pleasurable sensations during sexual intercourse between couples.
In this article, we explain what the golden shower consists of , what its main characteristics are, and we explain how you can do it safely.
What is golden shower?
The golden shower is the colloquial expression of urolagnia (1) and is considered a fetish act, which consists of the sexual arousal that occurs in some people when they are bathed with another person ‘s urine .
For some sex therapists, this practice is associated with the pleasure caused by activities such as sadomasochism, due to the feeling of dominance that some people exert over others.
On the other hand, the name of golden rain may have arisen from the similarity that exists between the color of urine and the color of gold , referring to the gold bath that one of the couples experiences.
You should know: This practice is considered a sexual paraphilia, which consists of sexual behavior where pleasure or orgasm is achieved beyond conventional sexual relations. (two)
How to make golden shower safely?
The golden shower, like other sexual practices such as the white kiss and the rainbow kiss , includes bodily fluids that, despite the negative considerations and taboos that are held in this regard, can be performed safely following the following recommendations:
1. Have the consent of the participants
Like any sexual act, it is recommended that the couple have information about this practice during intimate relations and know the intention, purposes and risks to achieve the consent of the participants.
2. Preferably do it in the shower
The recommendation to do it in the shower is because you have in that space the necessary elements to carry out an immediate hygiene of the participants, especially for the one who receives the load of urine, since these fluids are discarded through the sanitary facilities. taking with it possible pathogenic microorganisms.
Important: When doing it in a different place, there is a risk that viruses and bacteria remain deposited on floors, walls, furniture or other places that can serve as a source of contagion.
3. Maintain optimal intimate hygiene
Another recommendation, which can minimize the impact of contamination or contagion from contact with the partner’s urine, is to have optimal intimate hygiene that guarantees the least presence of pathogens, especially from the person making the golden shower. (3)
4. Make sure you are in good health
Additionally, the couple should undergo the corresponding medical check -ups more frequently if they are regular practitioners of golden showers. Knowing, for example, that you are not a carrier of a contagious infectious disease, somewhat decreases the chances of contagion. (4)
5. Avoid swallowing urine
Another complementary practice, which has also been rarely referenced , is that during the practice of golden showers, the couple who receives the urine bath also drinks it .
To highlight: This action is too risky for human health , since it has been documented that urine can cause conditions such as diarrhea, constipation, deep sleep, insomnia , allergies, abscesses, fever, cramps, tachycardia and vomiting.
What are the risks of golden shower?
When the previous recommendations or other additional ones recommended in sexual health are not taken , people can be exposed to any of the following risks:
1. Bacterial infections
The golden rain is a sexual practice, which has a risk on urogenital and general health for those who practice it, since from the urine they can contract some disease, Bacterial Infections of the Urethra , HIV, among others. (5)
Therefore, not carrying out periodic health check-ups, especially sexual health, can make us carriers of infectious diseases , even to the point of being asymptomatic carriers, a situation that places both the couple and the community at potential risk.
Note: Part of the infections are transmitted through common contact with contaminated people or objects, such as Hepatitis B.
2. Sexually transmitted diseases
The practice of atypical sexual activities such as the black kiss and the golden shower, it is recommended that they be carried out with the same partner. This can guarantee moderately, minimize the chances of getting sexually transmitted diseases such as syphilis, gonorrhea or any other. (6)
3. Allergic reactions on the skin and eyes
Contact with other people’s urine, including your own, can cause some allergic reactions, mainly on the skin, such as contact dermatitis . (7)
You should know: The ocular mucous membranes are also susceptible to allergic manifestations due to contact with urine. The salt and urea contained in this fluid can cause eye irritation .
Key Findings
- The golden shower consists of the sexual arousal produced in some people by being bathed with another person’s urine.
- The golden shower is a sexual behavior where pleasure or orgasm is achieved beyond conventional sexual intercourse.
- This sexual practice can be part of extravagant tastes in certain people of both sexes.
- Golden rain leads to exposure to the risk of contamination with sexually transmitted diseases.
- It may be associated with other conduct disorders such as sadomasochism.
University Professional in the area of Human Resources, Postgraduate in Occupational Health and Hygiene of the Work Environment, 14 years of experience in the area of health. Interested in topics of Psychology, Occupational Health, and General Medicine.